I felt that by lashing out at her and pushing her buttons, that gave me more power and control in the relationship, which was wrong. She knew that I would say harsh things to her if she went against my desires. Being Controlled: My wife felt like she had no say in the relationship, so she felt helpless and powerless to make decisions.I took advantage of our emotional intimacy and lashed out at her, making her feel like she was the cause of the problems in our marriage. Being Taken Advantage of: I used my wife as an emotional crutch, and I threw all of my problems on her.I didn't treat her with the respect she deserved. Treating her like this only drove her farther away from me, and it made her feel unappreciated in the relationship. Under-Appreciated: I never complimented my wife or made her feel special, all I did was push her away.
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